Aidan Tsai

Thoughts on "Lan Yu"

Thoughts on "Lan Yu"

"Lan Yu" is a movie I found on Netflix. I didn't think much of it at first, but it turned out to be a hidden gem. Here's why I think it's worth watching.

First off, this movie is about two men falling in love. But it's not just any love story. What I like is that it doesn't focus on the fact that they're both men in a way that feels forced. Yes, it's a close and personal film, but it doesn't scream "this is a gay love story" at you. There's a part near the end where Chen Handong's family is celebrating with them after they've gone through a tough time. They bring so much food, it could feed them for a week. By sharing a meal, Chen Handong's family acknowledges and embraces Lan Yu and Chen Handong's relationship in the most natural, heartwarming way. They didn't treat the couple any differently because of their sexuality, and I think that's a powerful message.

Another thing that grabbed me was how the movie shows power dynamics. Lan Yu starts off seeing Chen Handong because he needs money, and Chen can provide it. But their relationship isn't simple. It's not just about money or physical attraction; it evolves into something deep and complex. And this dynamic shift, especially after their reunion. It's the emotional authenticity and the actors' performances that make their journey so compelling.

The backdrop of Beijing in the late '80s and early '90s also adds something special to the story. I wasn't born then, but the movie gives a peek into a vibrant time of change. It shows the energy of the city and how society was more open, thanks to some pushing for democracy. But it also doesn't shy away from showing the darker sides, like corruption and the aftermath of the Tiananmen Square event. It's this mix of personal love story and historical context that makes the movie stand out.

Lastly, the setting really brings the story to life. The film ends with scenes of Beijing changing, with new roads and construction everywhere. It's a reminder that our personal stories are part of bigger societal changes. Our joys and sorrows are shaped by the world around us. "Lan Yu" does a great job of showing how personal and societal stories intertwine.


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